Dancing Upon Barren Land: An interview with Lesli A. Westfall

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When experiencing infertility, a woman’s feelings about herself, her relationships with others and her belief in God become confused and complicated. Having experienced these emotions herself, Lesli A. Westfall has written Dancing Upon Barren Land: Prayer, Scripture Reflections, and Hope for Infertility. Q: Can you tell us a little bit about your own ...continue reading

The Church It Was Never Meant to Be

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The Church. A place of love and joy and peace. A sanctuary of safety. A haven where the flock gathers and works together and loves one another with the love of Jesus and builds one another up and spurs one another on and helps one another grow. At least that’s the idea. Sadly, this is not always the case. In fact, there’s a lot going on in churches ...continue reading

When the Family Tree has {potentially} Rotten Roots

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Reader Question: I'm 72-years old and I have been tracing my family tree on Ancestry.com for the past several years. I am the oldest surviving member from both the maternal and fraternal side of  my family. My brother (two years younger) found out that he and I have different fathers making us half siblings. Here is the touchy part: for about a year now, ...continue reading

When We Whisper Thanks into the Whirlwind

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She graduated from high school on Friday and turned 18 on Saturday, then on Sunday spirited me out for a surprise Mother’s Day lunch at Piccadilly because she knew it was where my mother and I always went. She’s my baby-girl-become-woman, my soul friend who knows what my heartbeat sounds like from the inside. I said goodbye to 25 years of homeschooling ...continue reading

How Can I Enforce Healthy Boundaries?

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Reader Question: How do I explain my boundaries with my family to those who think because I am a Christian, I should not have these boundaries? These are boundaries that have not been put in place lightly, ones I have dedicated to prayer and I feel they are appropriate and needed. But I am constantly questioned and sometimes judged by those who seek to have ...continue reading